thank you so much for replying!
there isn't a planned parenthood here, and the doctor said to wait until i got at least one positive home test. that struck me as weird, but i guess i'll wait.
i actually started having a really light cycle today, but i'm not sure if that's me spotting because of a pregnancy or just me starting my period. it's just so hard to tell! although the reading i have been doing makes it sound as though the spotting is usually brownish if you are pregnant, and this isn't brown.
sorry if it's too much information, but i know a lot of you are mommies, so you have been there/ done that!
thank you again for the advice / response!