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Originally Posted by miss_apple_tart  I totally relate to this, especially the fact that weight loss will make me have to face other life changes.
Another thing for me, and I will be really happy if someone else can relate to this because I feel like I am totally insane and crazy for feeling this way...but I feel that if I lose weight then I am giving into the pressures of society. I feel like I will be a hypocrite because I have been going around preaching that you can still be big and beautiful if you are fat. |
People change, you can't be afraid to improve because you're worried about others. I once feared changing because of other people but people change, grow and there is nothing wrong with that.
I'd also like to say that this article is very usefull and strikes home with me and it is very good to address these issues. When you read them it sounds stupid but when you are secretly thinking some of these things you don't even realize.
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