hello and welcome! my starting weight was also 230 lbs....hate that number!! Well i have lost 10 lbs so far this month!! Anywho..i'm not so sure how your going to get him to do this with you, since hes not ready then it might not be a good idea to beg him, being that he might no be as sucessful as if his mind was set to do this! maybe when he sees that your doing good, it might make him want to change his life! I would ask him to supposrt you though!! I to am a night snacker..lol...so when i get these cravings i try to eat some fruit or the 100 cal pk. pop corn which helps alot. please feel free to stop by my diary! | 
