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Originally Posted by smallkisses  First I wanted to say thank you to everyone for their kind words. I am a very emotional person and I cry pretty easily, so its safe to say I was sobbing by the time I finished reading these replies. When I first started dating Bryan I told him I wanted to lose weight before I got married, and now that we have been together a while, we have been talking about marriage. He is holding me to the promise I made to myself a long time ago. I want to be a beautiful bride, but I can't find the motivation I need. The fact that I just sat here feeling sorry for myself should be motivation enough, but it's not. I have tried buying clothes that I can't wear, and tried rewarding myself for hitting small goals. I am an all or nothing kind of person. If I were addicted to drugs I could cut myself off and walk away, but how do you walk away from food when you need it to survive? Any suggestions that anyone has would be amazing. I am exhausted and I need to go to bed, work early in morning. |
Thats actually the same thing she said in her book ..how do you become unaddicted to something you have to have, except less of and she does explain how ..its very complicated .. I would suggest the book to you ...
you can get it off the barnes n noble site ..
I will get it for you and put it on here ok
ttylater
natalie jo
