Hi, Feeling really horrible about my weight and figured this is a good place to get some support. My mom used to tell me I was fat and maybe I was a fat kid but over the years I've learnt to be healthy and exercise regularly. Now I'm 140 pounds, about 20 pounds short of my ideal weight. I don't think I have a major weight problem, just think it would be nice to lose the little extra. Now here's the thing, a few weeks ago my boyfriend told me I needed to lose weight and it really hurt. I'm not fat! But he insists I really need to lose some weight. Now I just feel down and depressed and I've lost all my motivation. I told him it hurt and he doesn't seem to care, just says I should stop complaining. I've completely lost motivation and just feel horrid. To the point that I don't even want to eat anything anymore. Today I had half a cucumber for dinner... Really hope you guys can help cos I hate feeling like this. Life is too short to spend time crying about 20 stupid pounds!