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Originally Posted by maleficent I agree with you, camy, in that if the original poster expressed continual dismay about her weight -but wasn't acting on doing anythng about it -then the boyfriend is OK with saying something... and should be said - you can enable people for only so long... |
I disagree. There are other ways to support and encourage someone other than calling them "fat". Calling someone
fat is immature, inconsiderate and just plain rude.
I mean, c'mon........thats something a five year old would say.
I've cried because of my weight and complained about clothing to looking cute on me etc... My boyfriend will say "Lets go to the
gym then and you will feel better about yourself" etc...