| 140 doesn't sound that high of a weight unless you're under 4'11'' lol.
I think you need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend. Sometimes guys just don't 'get it' and may honestly have no clue he's seriously hurting your feelings! Sometimes my boyfriend will say something a little unsettling to me, and I let him know it! Even if they are just small things, they need to be nipped in the bud. If you talk to him and let him know it's a sensitive issue maybe he will be more helpful and less of an order-barker.
I think you need to have a talk with your mom too. Let her know weight isn't everything and she should be proud of you for who you are. She should help you out as much as she can, too.
And please take that half of a cucumber and add it to a salad at least!
-N- | 
