ugh my dad has something against overweight people (even though he could lose a couple pounds himself!) and he's been hard to live with.. cause my mom's overweight too.. and he used to say things like "get off your fat butt" and make jokes about me and my moms weight.. finally I just broke down crying one time and now he TRIES to shut his mouth but he just can't help it. He talks about strangers too... people he sees on the street and that's hurtful to me... like those are complete strangers.. so what does he think about us? so anyway.. I've felt the same way you do after my dad has said stuff like that.. as your boyfriend has.. it's like... "I don't want to try to lose weight just because he says I should" but then again.. it hurts so bad.. you want to lose the weight..

anyway I'm blabbing about myself.... --- boyfriends aren't supposed to be personal trainers.. he shouldn't have said that to you..

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