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There is some validity to your opinion....if you've always kept yourself in top form. But according to your ticker you also allowed yourself to get overweight so isn't it a bit hypocritical to dump a girlfriend over 30 pounds when you're carrying an extra 50?
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Good point, but the girlfriend in question didn't have a problem with my weight, or at least it didn't affect how she was attracted to me. If it did affect how she was attracted to me, then I would hold myself under the exact same standards that I held her to. The real problem was that she refused to be any part of a "joint" bettering of ourselves when I didn't like the way either of us looked.
The point is that no one should "settle" for someone lower than their standards as far as looks go. Everyone has the right to maintain whatever standards they choose, no matter how high or low; and no matter how they look themselves as long as their partner reciprocates a relative congruent attraction.
