wow, you look amazing. You do not look 43 whatsoever, i'd say you look about 25! Well, i have a son who just turned 1, hes my one and only, i dont want anymore, lol. Im 5'6 and before i got pregnant i weighed about 130, which was a little heavy for me, cause i got out of sports and i gained about 15 pounds, i normally weighed about 115. Im small framed so i looked healthy at 115. Anyway i gained about 35 pounds during pregnancy, i ate very healthy but i still had junk food once in a while. My son was born July 1, 2007, he weighed 9 pounds 1 ounce, so he wasnt small. After about 3-4 weeks, i had lost almost all of my pregnancy weight, i went from 165 to 135. So now im at about 138, 136 in the morning. I need to lose about 15-20 pounds because i have major "love handles" and a stomach, my arms are a little chunky too. So im just wondering how did you lose the 20?