lol stop, i think u are right. he is probably worried younger men will start lookin at me soon (he is gonna be 50 this year).

btw on the belly thing, i saw something on tv recently that said if you were overweight for more than a couple years the skin wont bounce back even after you lose weight. now im mad that i waited to lose weight - i was only overweight for 3 yrs! so i think no matter what i do im still stuck with this belly (lot of extra skin).

now i know why celebs are in such a hurry to lose the weight after having kids! if only i knew then what i know now...