There is no need to eat 6 meals a day. That's a
diet myth that's been disproved for a while.
What you do need to do to lose
body fat and keep the muscle structure for the 6-pack and "fit" look is this:
Eat a reasonable amount of
calories (not too many and not too few - for you I'd suggest about 1500
calories a day).
Make sure you get about 1g of protein per
pound of
goal bodyweight (for you, around 130g).
Train using
weights and bodyweight
exercises 2x - 3x per week, and then do
cardio on the off days.
There's a thread on the Exercise forum by Steve called "The Conceptual Side of Weight Lifting" - read it and it'll give you LOTS of good information on how to maintain muscle whlle losing
fat.
It will also really help to have your bodyfat tested so you know where you stand. At the point you're at and the goals you have, I suspect it's far more about BF% than about weight.