Most people here are trying to lose weight using advice and support from others, but very few here are professionals. This is an attempt to bring in the professionals. THINGS COULD GET NASTY!
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I'm 17, 4'11, and weigh 120. I'm really small boned too. I want to get down to about 105.
I have been eating around 1300 calories a day. I only drink water, tea, and an occasional juice. I eat lots of veggies and fruit. I don't eat red meat. I usually have grilled chicken.
Here are my workouts: I do them at least 4 times a week. Sometimes more.
1000 regular crunches
1000 bicycle crunches
100 situps
20 twist lungest each leg
20 kick lunges each leg
50 plie squats
50 pulsing plie squat things
50-100 back leg lifts each leg
100 sitting glute raise things each leg
100-200 desk dips
30 reverse pushups
I have been doing this for a long time, but haven't lost any weight. Please tell me what I am doing wrong. Thanks so much!!
Why aren't I losing weight? Harsh truth needed. Post #2 (permalink)
I do need more cardio! I haven't noticed any changes. I'm still the same pants size. It's usually way too cold to go running. I'm gonna start going to the gym soon though.
Why aren't I losing weight? Harsh truth needed. Post #4 (permalink)
Took me about a month of running for about 30 minutes to an hour a day before results were showing on the scale for me, and my intake was about 700-500 less than what I was burning. Then another month went by and my weight hardly dropped. Fortunately, I decided to take pictures from before, and took some today, I didn't notice anything until I compared the pictures. I didn't think I changed, so I'm glad I took the pictures. My suggestion is to photograph your progress and be patient.
Why aren't I losing weight? Harsh truth needed. Post #5 (permalink)
I'm 17, 4'11, and weigh 120. I'm really small boned too. I want to get down to about 105.
I have been eating around 1300 calories a day. I only drink water, tea, and an occasional juice. I eat lots of veggies and fruit. I don't eat red meat. I usually have grilled chicken.
Here are my workouts: I do them at least 4 times a week. Sometimes more.
1000 regular crunches
1000 bicycle crunches
100 situps
20 twist lungest each leg
20 kick lunges each leg
50 plie squats
50 pulsing plie squat things
50-100 back leg lifts each leg
100 sitting glute raise things each leg
100-200 desk dips
30 reverse pushups
I have been doing this for a long time, but haven't lost any weight. Please tell me what I am doing wrong. Thanks so much!!
One this is the "harsh truth" but I am not trying to be harsh just honest.
That routine is horrible. Scratch it, throw it away. You aren't going to get anywhere doing those exercises but breaking down muscle tissues especially in a deficit.
Routine-Full body 3 days a week. 6-8 exercises of compound full body movements. Get some weight, stop overtraining. Allow 1 day for rest at least between each workout.
Diet-1300 isn't THAT low for someone your size though I would still suggest bouncing your calories. I would wager you are not taking account exactly what you are taking in. You are either getting too little therefore your body will not release stores or you are getting to much and not in a deficit. You need protein with every meal and to work within a smart % or ratio of each nutrient.
You have been trying and training but you haven't been doing it right. Get yourself a good plan and a focused diet and I am SURE you will hit your goal. The smaller you are the harder and more focused you have to be, that is the "curse" of being so small in the first place.
Good Luck if you have anymore question post away.
Why aren't I losing weight? Harsh truth needed. Post #7 (permalink)
Ok, Leigh---chill with the mean-ness please. You may not be intending to come off as rude but it is certainly coming across that way in your posts.
While 15 pounds in a month is incorrect the rest is true---and proven. Muscle does weigh more than fat and cardio is a great way to burn off fat.
I would suggest rather than telling people how 'horrible' their plan is that you would give them alternate plans to use and positive reinforcement.
Muscle does not weight more than fat, it is more dense. A pound is a pound period. It is a common myth that even personal trainers go around saying because people want to hear why the scale isn't moving. Fat tissue is approximately 20% less dense than muscle, so it takes up 20% more space.
A ton of bricks weighs the same thing as a ton of feathers. The weight is the same a pound is a pound. What we are talking about is density and mass of that space.
I am not being rude, I am protecting people from false information. This is the area that we the professionals are allowed to hand out the truth. Someone being told to lose 15lbs in a month at 4'11 and 120 pounds is a dangerous thing to say. It is this kind of advice that can lead people to starving themselves because SOMEONE SOMEWHERE said it was okay. Sorry you are not going to get that from me, it is unhealthy and unethical. I am here to give the truth and the best information I can to help these people asking nothing in return yet myself and otherd are constantly told to behave because we aren't "being nice".
modfashion may have had no idea about the advice they were given, I am not criticizing them. I am not going around telling them they are stupid or calling them names. No, I said it was horrible advice and I feel that you shouldn't give advice IN THIS AREA unless you are knowing what you speak of.
Would you get mad at a doctor who told you that you have a horrible diet and that is why you are so unhealthy? I don't think so. This is our field of knowledge, let us do our job and stop criticizing every move we make. They made this area for people like us to answer questions truthfully. I have not ONCE been rude to an original poster of a question, I have however set people who respond straight if they are giving out wrong information.
Last edited by Leigh P.; February 3rd, 2007 at 03:30 PM.
Why aren't I losing weight? Harsh truth needed. Post #11 (permalink)
So every other person in the world that says that muscle weighs more than fat is wrong? Every Doctor, Trainer, Weight-loss specialist is wrong and you're right? Seems fishy that everyone else in the world is deceived....maybe it's a conspiracy theory.
It is quite possible to communicate truth without being mean. State the 'truth' but don't ridicule, embarrass, or humiliate other people. It takes a lot of guts to ask for advice---especially about weight-loss, the last thing someone who is putting themselves out there wants to hear is 'your a fool for following such a horrible plan'. Is it that hard to be nice and say, oh I don't know... 'It sounds like the plan you've been using has a few problems, let me see if I can help' Big difference.
Why aren't I losing weight? Harsh truth needed. Post #12 (permalink)
Muscle does not weight more than fat, it is less dense. A pound is a pound period. It is a common myth that even personal trainers go around saying because people want to hear why the scale isn't moving. Fat tissue is approximately 20% less dense than muscle, so it takes up 20% more space.
By that logic.. you could that a baseball weighs as much as a golf ball. One is more dense, but a pound of it is a pound of it. By that logic you could say anything weighs just as much as anything else. Which is... not really right...
Why aren't I losing weight? Harsh truth needed. Post #13 (permalink)
Not to jump on anyones toes here since I'm new, but I agree with Leigh! This area is called the HARSH TRUTH for a reason! It's not so that we can dance around the topic of weight loss and training. This is a place for people to come ONLY after they have added a few layers of leather if they are easily offended.
this is a dumb argument.. I mean, obviously a poundfat is a pound of muscle.. but when everyone says that muscle weighs more than fat, it's implied that the the same volume of fat weighs less than the equivalent volume of muscle.
Any genius would of course know that 1 lb = 1 lb. But if you were to look at it they way you guys are, everything weighs just as much as anything else!
This is dumb, I'm don't care to read what the responses to this are.
Why aren't I losing weight? Harsh truth needed. Post #15 (permalink)
So every other person in the world that says that muscle weighs more than fat is wrong? Every Doctor, Trainer, Weight-loss specialist is wrong and you're right? Seems fishy that everyone else in the world is deceived....maybe it's a conspiracy theory.
The only people I have ever heard say that don't know what they are talking about. Type into google "muscle weighs more than fatmyth" and you just see what you get.
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it is quite possible to communicate truth without being mean. State the 'truth' but don't ridicule, embarrass, or humiliate other people.
Look who is talking, you are the one attacking me for I might add trying to give advice and not let a poster be misguided. I personally see nothing wrong with my wording especially if it is obvious enough for a poster to go "hmm maybe I should look into this" they don't have to trust me or them, but at least it will plant enough doubt to where maybe they will look into it for themselves. You have your doubts about what I am saying fine, hand me the facts, you will find while looking for them you might be proven wrong.
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It takes a lot of guts to ask for advice---especially about weight-loss, the last thing someone who is putting themselves out there wants to hear is 'your a fool for following such a horrible plan'.
I have never and would never call anyone a fool. I don't really get why this sounds harsh to you...
"You have been trying and training but you haven't been doing it right. Get yourself a good plan and a focused diet and I am SURE you will hit your goal. The smaller you are the harder and more focused you have to be, that is the "curse" of being so small in the first place.
Good Luck if you have anymore question post away."
What are you upset I didn't use a smiley face or an ! mark? I gave good advice, right advice. And I don't apologize in anyway for pointing out that the advice modfashion gave was wrong. My doing that could keep that girl from starving herself and if that makes me look "harsh or mean" then so be it. I am actually a very nice and encouraging person and spend a lot of time answering private messages to people who just need a little help and encouragement from this board alone. My "boardside manner" is only seen as "rude" when someone doesn't like the fact that they are wrong, not my problem. I provide the truth the best I know it to be. I talk to the original posters with the high respect and never make anyone feel like they are stupid. The reason this process is so damn hard is because other people make it that way scattering false information everywhere. I will continue to correct that information when I see it. I will in the future make note of my "tone".