New Year, New Thread for Those who Weigh 200 lbs/90 Kg or More

[tamwalt]

Originally Posted by nataliejo

I even thought I would like to die last night, but I fought that feelings, realized no one was going to give me a hug and had to rely upon myself for that. So I gave myself a hug and cried my eyes out. Sniffles and all.

... hang in there hun. Your right, your young now, and you DO have a whole life to look forward to.

[tamwalt]

Thought I would stop by to see how you guys were doing! ...and let you guys know that I lost another 4lbs!!!

[veronandez86]

Originally Posted by tamwalt

Thought I would stop by to see how you guys were doing! ...and let you guys know that I lost another 4lbs!!!

That's Friggen Awesome!! Ya You!!

[veronandez86]

Originally Posted by nataliejo

Ok I figured out what I want to do. Even yes after my rant. I am going on a few dates with Derek lol We are going to chill, go out to eat, etc.

I still really like him, sure the kiss surprised me, but he so gentle, nice and kind. And I do have some feelings for him and if Jay is going to be a dud, I dont see why its bad to surround myself with a really nice guy, who says he is going to treat me like the Queen I am. He is funny, he makes me crack up laughing all the time. He even sends me these hillariously funny jokes that make me crack up even when he isnt near. I just have this feeling about him, always have, and just fought it, because I didnt want to settle yet. But I think Derek is someone I dont want to pass by. I am going to go for it, but I am still going to therapy. Therapy is def needed at this time in my life and maybe always. So kudos to me for finally figuring out what I trully want and which guys is the right fit for me and finding out that I love myself, regardless of how men have treated me in the past and how my mother was and how my father was absent. I do love myself, revelations last night and all day today. I am a good person and deserve the best. And Derek is the best. I would like to get more than tongue tied with him lol

Well ttylater lovies
love yas
natalie jo

Take it slow Natalie. I think it's great that you decided to give Derek a try. Just remember you gotta walk before you run... so try to take it slow with Derek. Get to know him before you get to KNOW him.

It's awesome that you finally figured out that you love youself. This is your life. So, put yourself first. That might seem selfish, but sometimes it's what you gotta do. I hope things work out for you and Derek.


Luv Ya!
Ur Friend.
Veronica

[tinkerbella]

Originally Posted by Kevi12

Okay guys, I'm drunk right now hahaha, i may type now like it, but man my friends were makin out on my bed! I had to stop them so i dont have to sleep in on a bed with you know xD just some crazy night man, i'm so happy lol. I LOVE YOZY ALL!!!!!

Aww Kevi, drunk again! School is def out!

[Hope2]

wow.. That's about all I could think while reading.. wow..

Kevi, you are freekin me out man! GEES little boy, chill! Sounds like you are getting in over your head. I know I'm sounding like a mom here, but to bad. I would be pissed the f off, if my kid was drinking like this. You are 16.. I started doing some pritty stupid shit Kevi when I was like 13 and it got me no where fast, seriously, WAIT untill you are actually legal. Then even though you'll still make stupid mistakes, at least they wont be as STUPID..

JUST WORRIED ABOUT YOU! You planning to spend the whole summer drunk?


OH, and achaholic drinks have a LOT OF CALORIES.. So if your trying to loose your weight, its going to be that much harder..

Yes that was just a lecture...



NAT,

Glade to see you are doing much MUCH better.. Be careful with the boys and be careful with yourself.. Seriously, I think you are at a great time in your life, like a turning point, but you seem very fragile right now. I'd like to here about you doing something, well something that will make you happy, that has nothing to do with boys.. But that's just what I'd like to see. What do you want for yourself Nat?


TamWalt You go girl! AMAZING!

veronandez,

You are a very prity girl! Seriously. I'm glad to here about your new romance I think it's really cute. So are you scared, this is your first maybe boyfriend right? Are your friends giving you any tips? Allso, for you too, make sure any man you spend your time on is worth your time spent. Meaning it's not all about him liking you, it's honetsly about you likeing him, if you both end up feeling the same way, umm that is awsume..

My sister who is my age 29, still all the time gets hung up on, well does this guy like me, bla bla.. I ask her over and over, the REAL question is , do you like this guy? A lot of the time she says she doesn't know, or kinda, but it's like THAT doesn't matter, she is still more conserned if he likes her.. hmmmm.. This is how a lot of women are.. You've probably heard your friends, or seen this on movies.. Girls are retartded, when it comes to guys. Be yourself, and keep yourself in mind when you make disishions, and you will be happy, and have a good relaitonship!

(wow, I'm being such a mom tonight, gees)

Hope everyone else is doing great! Pink clouds, Pink clouds, where for art thow!

Allrighty, guys, I'll check you later! I've been enough of a pain in the butdukski tonight!

Quick story I forgot to share.. Last week went to a restarant with my dad, brother and brothers girlfriend. It was an all you can eat chinise place. hmmm. I was like GREAT.. UGG.. So anyway, did find food on the bafett tables that I could eat, and patheticaly got as much as the sauce scraped off as posible, no rice, lots of vegies, no fried yummy egg rolls, I was a good girl! Had a bunch of grapes and cantalope for desert.. Ok, all was well, felt good about my first restarant experance. bla bla.. Well my dad seems a little peeved. Because umm I could tell he didn't think I took advantage of the all you can eat baffett.. Like he didn't get his money's worth.. Felt realy uncomfortable, and thought, gees.. haha.. People..

[Kevi12]

Haha, not really I jsut wanted to celebrate that's all. So many things happened over my junior year and it wasn't really pretty. I'm not trying to escape from it either, but I had a blast . I'm actually thinking about my future too . To be honest with you I'm almost done with all my nursing pre-requisit skills and i'm only a senior. Isn't that great?

[veronandez86]

Originally Posted by Hope2

veronandez,

You are a very prity girl! Seriously. I'm glad to here about your new romance I think it's really cute. So are you scared, this is your first maybe boyfriend right? Are your friends giving you any tips? Allso, for you too, make sure any man you spend your time on is worth your time spent. Meaning it's not all about him liking you, it's honetsly about you likeing him, if you both end up feeling the same way, umm that is awsume..

My sister who is my age 29, still all the time gets hung up on, well does this guy like me, bla bla.. I ask her over and over, the REAL question is , do you like this guy? A lot of the time she says she doesn't know, or kinda, but it's like THAT doesn't matter, she is still more conserned if he likes her.. hmmmm.. This is how a lot of women are.. You've probably heard your friends, or seen this on movies.. Girls are retartded, when it comes to guys. Be yourself, and keep yourself in mind when you make disishions, and you will be happy, and have a good relaitonship!

(wow, I'm being such a mom tonight, gees)

LoL! I like the Mom side of you.

Thanks for saying I'm pretty. It always feels nice to hear that.

Well, Sean is not my first boyfriend. The last guy I was with I dated on and off from the age of 18 to 20 and he was a complete A-Hole. The possessive kind who tried to get me to stop being friends with all the guys I knew. (I've always had more guy friends than girl friends and he streight up told me that if I wanted a guy friend to talk to I had permission to talk to his BROTHER!!)

Sean is the first boyfriend (I'm unsure if we are together officially) to treat me super sweetly and yeah. I defenitly know I like him alot and not just because he likes me back. However, I dont know him well enough to say that I can see ourselves together years from now. But I suppose that's the whole point in dating someone... to get to know them, fall in love, then plan futures. Right?

LoL! I agree... girls do get all retarted when it comes to guys. I'm in no way like your sister. I'm more concerned on what kinda "like" I feel for him, rather than what kinda "like" he feels for me. Nor am I the crazy girl who has a 200 page spiral notebook dedicated to hearts filled with the words: "Veronica & Sean 4-Eva" or "Mrs. Sean Stock" LoL. That's crazy.

That reminds me of that episode of Family Matters where Steve Urkels girlfriend Myrah has a picture of Urkels face on her pillows, lamp shades, carpet, curtins, wallpaper, and bedspread. LoL. PSYCHO! (Wow... I watch too much TV.)

I'm just taking it easy with him. I figure if we are both in it for the long run, then going slow and actually getting to know one another will not hurt anything.

[spartacus26]

Sheemoney!!!! I move and wait a couple of days to check the thread and there's super drama all over the place!
Tamwalt has lost like 100 pounds since the last time I checked...
Kevi has overshared and made me worried about him...
Nat has been happy and sad and happy again (I remember those days...)...
Veronandez thought I had Spiderman as my avatar (which I keep trying to change but it's just not working)...
We got a new member (that's assuming princess is still here)...

And I'm pretty sure I heard the word wog used somewhere. Ahhh. Makes me feel special.

I have been eating every meal away from home, so the scale has been edging upwards rather than down. I'm pretty much back to normal in terms of having a kitchen, though, so that should fix itself. School's out for the summer!!!

I'm waiting to call my new principal and find out where to move the tons of teacher stuff I have accumulated, and to bike around my new town, and to jog again... I'm excited!!
First things first, though. I have to get the internet fixed before anything else can happen.

Good luck on all your adventures, guys!! Hang in there!!

[tinkerbella]

Originally Posted by Hope2

Quick story I forgot to share.. Last week went to a restarant with my dad, brother and brothers girlfriend. It was an all you can eat chinise place. hmmm. I was like GREAT.. UGG.. So anyway, did find food on the bafett tables that I could eat, and patheticaly got as much as the sauce scraped off as posible, no rice, lots of vegies, no fried yummy egg rolls, I was a good girl! Had a bunch of grapes and cantalope for desert.. Ok, all was well, felt good about my first restarant experance. bla bla.. Well my dad seems a little peeved. Because umm I could tell he didn't think I took advantage of the all you can eat baffett.. Like he didn't get his money's worth.. Felt realy uncomfortable, and thought, gees.. haha.. People..

Lol think its quite common for people to want to get as much as they can for their money I have always avoided these places purely because i cant say no if food i love is laid out in front of me! Well done Hope for having such willpower!!

Ok...was wondering what you guys thought of this littl esituation i have with my friend. Its beginning to freak me out and im not quite sure if im over-reacting or not.

I know her from my set of friends from uni. She is one of my closest friends and was my maid of honour at my wedding. She went through a horrible time and lost her boyfriend and then sorta lost all hger friends. Each time it happened she told me the situation and how she was blameless and they were bitches, etc. I believed her at the time but now im not so sure. Anyway, I started inviting her out with other groups of friends and especially when i went out with my sister in law. I just didnt want her sitting around moping and she had no other friends to go out with. She has now taken things al little too far and she is hounding my si in law and my friends with phonecalls, texts, emails, etc. She even org her birthday night out so that my whole family was there....it freaked me out!! She has also called up my friends to arrange nights out which have freaked them out so much that they got onto ME. (I think she took their numbers from my phone cos they swear that they didnt give them to her)

This was bothering me but i was willing to put it down to her being lonely. However, she has now crossed a line cos she has started phoning my husband and waiting outside his workplace. She said she just needs some male advice abt stuff but it is serverly pissing me off...i totally trust mu hubby but i hate that she is trying to get in on EVERY bit of my life. My friends, my family and now my husband! Am i over reacting and being childish abt this or am i right to think that she has gone too far?

The last thing i want is to leave her friendless but at the moment i cant bear to see her or be near her....help!

[Hope2]

Tink,
she's gone overboard, and it's time for an ocward talk. Sorry, it's just plain weird. And this is NOTHING agenst your husband at all, but her going to him for advice, is soooooooo not a good idea. Seriously, bad bad idea. Unless they were or are just really really close friends, and were friends on there own before your marriage. I know, sounds like that wouldn't make a difference, but think about it, there is a big difference there. I'm not saying talking to him isn't ok, or being friendly, or even being freinds. BUT the going to your husband for advice thing, is hmmm, how do I say this.. Really inapropriate, because....

Well she gets to play the little ol victom, her life sucks, bla bla, and he gets to play the hero.. Wow you are so nice, wow, you are so understanding, wow, bla bla, So you see, before you know it she'll be thinking (if not allready ) ahhh my hero... Like I said, nothing agenst your husband, and I'm not insinuating anything, seriouse I'm not. I'm just letting you know, that vibes get sent out, well that you aren't really going to want as a part of your life. And since she's kinda fixcated on you, and your life right now, hmmm, that would seem to indicate that your life is something she really envey's.

Hmmm.. Lets just say, I had a woman who was obsesed with my life, seriously obsesed, can't think of a better word. There was no extream, that wasn't taken, including breaking into my emails.. Umm she still could be if she wanted to, still to this day have no idea how on earth she did that, and my password was allways reset. And my secret questions, never are the true answers, so I'm tricky tricky, but she out smarted me, in so many ways, because I do not think about minipulative things... Ahhh.. Honestly don't care any more at all.. Seriously don't.. But while living it , it was very distrubing unsetling, and it got pritty twisted. Like I was thinking hmm, am I going to get offed, lol, seriously.. Not trying to scare you and I don't think you are any where close to there.. BUT, letting you know that your feelings are VALID. It's honestly not ok, not normal, and has to be delt with.

I'm sorry to say this too, but there are lines that can't be crossed, and once they are, well, even if you don't want it to effect things, it does. She crossed some big lines, in a weird obsesive way. And honestly I don't think your friendship will recover. I'm sorry. And perhaps, it's better that way..

Just being honest, and umm it's just my opinon.

Ok, I'm off the soap box now.. gees...


What is with me, lol....

Kevi glade to here your not going to be a looser boozer! lol

veronandez, Ha, yeah well, my mother is showing.. lol think I need to cover it back up..lol

Oh guys, I'm just sooooo happy, seriously never have been happier in my life. Love is an amazing amazing thing, that honestly I stoped beliving in, I had no idea that I even had the capasity to love in a real way, or fall in love, allways wanted too but gave up on the idea. And I truely feel like I found my match. Like for real made for eachother like a well tailerd glove, not the OJ kind. Seriously it's crazy I know, the timing, the everything. But I don't know, it's just right, really really right, I'm allready thinking way way future wise... Lol... Gees... Seriously very very happy.

[nataliejo]

Originally Posted by Kevi12

Okay guys, I'm drunk right now hahaha, i may type now like it, but man my friends were makin out on my bed! I had to stop them so i dont have to sleep in on a bed with you know xD just some crazy night man, i'm so happy lol. I LOVE YOZY ALL!!!!!

Kevi... Just wait till Dorm life in College... it doesnt change from what you have written here lol just make sure you get what you need done ... sounds like you are having some wild and crazy nights.... enjoy while you are young ..

love yas
always
natalie jo