Hi everyone..I'm new to this site...I've been about 20 to 30 pds overweight all of my life..I am 5'8 so I have been able to wear the weight well over the years.. Or so I told myself...my losest weight was 165..highest 211 ..I've lost and gained more times than I care to remember...I am now 194pds...I'm scared this time I may gain without the will power to lose.. I just recently had a miscarriage..Last week to be exact..This was a very painful experience for me..I find myself eating to fill my pain..I know this happens...I want to concieve again..And my doctor tells me she sees no reason for me not to..But I want to be in the best physical condition I can..I am a member of Curves..and will be going back on Saturday..I just need alittle encouragement..My husband is babying me and tells me I deserve to think of myself for awhile..He is also from down south..So he's attention is always smothered in gravy... He means well...I was cursed with a husband that can cook better than Martha Stewart...I just need motivation....

Hi Honey,

I just read your message and am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you have such a wonderful husband to take care of you during this time. Just hang in there. I can't imagine what you are feeling right now, and I won't pretend to understand your feelings, maybe you should consider joining a local support group with your husband.
I remember when I first started working out, I coudln't even get thru the warm up before I tuckered out. I've been working on it for a while, so now I am able to get thru a workout and accutally feel pretty good, sore, but good. I'll be praying for you and I hope your sitauation improves.

Sincerely,
Beth76