i dont think she cares what you think

very few care what I think...

however, I am generally right 97.45 percent of the time with a +/- 2.55 percentage of error...

whatchootawkinbout willis?

clearly you've not heard of my arrogance on this forum

I was about to ask you the same thing.

You might not need to be 100 lbs to be happy with your body, you may very well be happy before then. You may be happy with your looks losing only a pound.

Just take it day by day.


Also the only reason people are not agreeing with you here is because they are concerned about your health, not because they think you're a crazy anorexic lady.

i dont know why everyone keeps talking about it.. let her be! She got the answer she was looking for. Mods could close this thread if needed

Because some people get concerned with goals or diets that could* be harmful, and dont answer based on getting some cred with a chick on the internet.


*could means could be, not are. I am making not assumptions on this persons diet, only some peoples postings. teehee

lady here ^^ and honestly doesnt matter. lol let her be!

and for the fact a BMI under 18.5 is unhealthy not 20. AND she seems to exercise everyday a LOT so BMI isnt accurate. Also depends on body shape, i got no boob weight and that MUST count for something
In fact, all asian women are underweight by your standards and clearly they cant be! .. 1.5 billion chinese, korean and japanese women ar starving, lets go feed them!

I'd say that u shuld keep to 1200kcal and 500kcal exercise..(take a break once a week, add more another) BECAUSE! you also go to work, cook, clean, move about, go shop, daily life..

So that even a female office desk worker without exercise shuld burn about 1600 kcal? add 500 kcal from exercise and you got your 1k deficit =)

+1. People here need help and they deserve to be told the truth, not just "lol ur hot so don't wory bout it." That's not what she's asking, that doesn't help anyone.

Then she's completely misunderstood the concept of internet message boards. And Maleficent is contributing to this discussion and saying what needs to be said and not just acting like the shit for giving someone a link.

Well, that's exactly what it is. You jumped all over everyone and claimed everyone's judging you when all anyone said is 100 pounds is not a healthy weight. They're not judging, and they are helping, they're trying to make sure you don't damage yourself by loosing too much weight.

If you're just immediately going to shoot down everything anyone says, what's the point of asking for our help?

Zackly right...

I might not be the most... umm what's the word... tactful person on the face of the earth... but this is a support forum.. and I strongly - passionately to a point - believe that a big portion of support for someone is pointing out where their ideas are misguided and pointing them towards a healthier goal... than just saying ok you can do it...

I'm not gonna do that... ever...

^^; familyweese: my point was just that all is relative. what your diet is as u grow up, your structure and genetics, the sports u do, if u have muscle or not, body shape... etc.. BMI is only a hmm guideline. You cant decide that ha you're above 25 so fat, some people look fine, strong bones, lots of muscle and vice versa.
Of course she should be careful not to become unhealthily thin. And I agree that if she does a lot of weights, her BMI would be higher than usual and thats exactly why it shouldnt be someone's ruler as to wether they're too big or small..

I'm not saying everyone's judging her or anything, I just wish people could say it a little softer .. disgustingly thin, etc.. probably wont make her change her mind or react positively!

What i suggest is: just see if you're happy with ur body, it's yours and only yours. If you are unsure, go see a professional. He can get you a full check and help you. Post some pics when you're happy so everyone here can stop worrying!

=) and there are nicer ways to tell people than to discard them as useless or pointless or comments got nothing to do. Sorry i couldnt explain properly, was just popping a post during lunch time.

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I'm trying to figure out how any of the above posts had someone insulting you.
This is a nutritional forum. You asked for help and people are helping you. Jump the gun much?

apparently it was me. i say whatever comes to mind and am too honest for my own good. most people don't enjoy it. it's ok, i'm used to it by now.

That's most often the problem.

Validation is only as good as the idea you're validating.