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Originally Posted by blueberry_twist 
You know what I was the same sweetie... I couldnt go alone im on pills to help me be around people after what I went through. BUT swimming has helped me where I dont have to take the pills every day ( been 2 weeks without them ) and I hate going alone..
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I'm taking pill too (for anxiety). I probably would have started going to the gym sooner, but I was too scared. Most people stay away from the gym because they don't want to exercise. I love exercising but I usually have so much anxiety being around people that I'd rather not go. Now, I'm on medication and I'm doing fine. I still get a little bit tense when the gym is packed, but I usually at the times when there aren't too many people. I also take headphones and try to blur my surroundings with music or good tv; both work perfectly fine.
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| My boyfriend some times just cant or my friend... So I go for like a 30 min drive ( the YMCA is 2 min away LOL ) and talk to myself then I walk in there with knowing I'M making the right move and you will see everyone there is nice. |
I hope so!

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| I have older people that I dont even know saying how I'm there everyday and how great that is and that I'm doing so well people |
Aww, that's sweet.
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I dont even know saying good job or how do you do so many laps. You will have people you dont know suport you its amazing.  |
Yeah, its a bit insane. I always knew I could workout intensely, but wasn't sure I'd ever have the guts to stay around people for so long. The odd thing is that I feel less anxious after the workout. I also feel less stressed and less angry.
And I do hve people that support me, but I also have people (like my mother and sister) who worry about my eating habits. Due to my past, they always think "I'm starving myself" and thus, always offer me food. Every time I come out of the gym, they are like "Wanna a burger? A sandwich? Ice cream? Bagel? Coke?" etc .... etc... They usually offer me the bad stuff but I've made it pretty clear over the past few days that I'm done with fast foods and sugared drinks...