I would drop the Jenny esp. if after a year you've only lost 13lbs- Try other frozen meals like Kashi , Lean cuisine , Smart ones or Healthy choice. It's also winter so some premade soups are a quick fix. Honestly the portion control and calorie thing isn't really all that hard to get a handle on ( took me about 1-2 weeks where I didn't even have to look it up for most things) and websites are so helpful now its not much work at all and the fact that you can eat almost anything you want more then makes up for it.

This is what sparked my comment and my "warm welcome":

As long as no one is being rude, is it OK with you if we respond as we would like or must we limit our response to the question posed because you dont think it appropriate that we give our opinion unless specifically asked? Yeah, like you said there are always one or two in the forum.

I'm not sure why any of that would have offended you. You're being pretty rude, but I wouldn't mess with you...