i just joined here in need of help! But please give me some info heres my info

Im 14 and im about 6"1 or somewhere around that zone.. And i sadly weigh 165 pounds i think im obese but i dont know.. The thing is im not like a HUGE FAT KID its spread out so i look very slim with clothes on but with clothes off like swimming or w/e i look so fat! So i havent swam in forever or took my shirt ect off infront of anyone im scared too.. Help?

How much should i weigh?

Any tips about the other stuff.. I'm sorry if this is wron section im new here but iwould love your help

1. (I dont eat big)

2. (Im a couch potato A BIG ONE but i do go workout for 4 days a week and do a good routine that i am sweating like i was stuck in a oven for 9 hours when i get through soo But meh im very self concious if you will about my weight.. I have no idea where to post this so move it if its wrong section. SO yeah thanks =D

Sorry for wrong spelling ect.. a new keyboard

Well, I am 5'6 and am 165...I am told that I certainly don't look fat, and I don't think I look fat either, I just want to lose a few pounds.

So at 6'1 and 165, I don't think you should consider yourself fat O_O

at 6'1 and 165 lbs at age 14 isn't overweight...

Not eating a lot is vague -what are you eating? now is the time to start building healthy eating habits that you will take with you for the rest of your life.

What do you do with your workouts?

Spend some time reading the stickied threads in nutrition and exercise and have your parents read them as well....

Are you male or female?

male and thanks guys but im not sure if im 6.1 thats just about that ratio i know its either 5"8 - 6"1 or w/e im measuring myself to get a good perfect thing later today soo yeah =D And i dont eat the HEALTHIEST but i do eat healthy alot

I'm 6'6" 22 years old 314 Lbs. I am big but I've also been told I dont look "fat" My brother is 6'4ish" 20 and 235 lbs he is a slender build with a little tummy flab but a fair amount of muscle too.

When I was 14 I was about your size a little heavier probably 185 or so...I was bigger than most kids but not fat.

I'm sure its mostly just the fact that your 14 years old, all teenagers go through a time period where they look strange. You will out grow it esp if you keep up eating right and excersizing. Tons of kids your age feel the same way about themselves but once you hit highschool 15 years + thats when you will look better dont worry.

^ tee hee... My mom and them always said i had big bones and it was still baby fat but i dont know.. Thanks alot guys i feel alot better now and yes for valentines day my mom loves sales so she goes all out and fills FREAKING BUCKETS with candy for god sakes.. So atm its hard to not to eat it XD But i've already ate enough of it so i wont eat anymore of it maybe every know and then but thanks alot guys.. Im going too try and measure how tall i am.. I know 2 years ago i was 5"3 and like 9 months after that i was like 9 more inches or so and so on so forth you know so i know im close to 6.1 if not 6.0 or 5.12 or w/e But thanks guys i feel alot better

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