Hi gang just came from some of the before and after pics section of this amazing website. But it is odd to be attracted more to the heavier pictures, maybe it is just my thing, but is there anyone else who prefers some meat on the bones? Not meaning that as a bad thing at all and I am not trying to discourage anyone, just thinking out loud. I am guilty of liking the bigger gals.

Yeah I had some of my own thoughts when looking at the before and after photoes.
They are very insparational, but...



When all said and done, will we end up with the bodies we want. Now I have kids, I know my body is never going to be perfect again. And I really can't picture my children snugiling up on a hard body mommy. So for me I want to keep some sqwoosh. I just don't know how much, once I get closer to my goal weight I'll have to figure it out then.

I think we all want different things, and are atracted to different body types. Your comment won't deture anyone from meeting there own personal goals.

Just curious how big you like 'em?

I'm not in to really skinny guys. My boyfriend is 5'9 and 185. He has an athletic build and thats what appeals to me. I wouldn't call that bigger though nor would I call his build skinny.

good question, I guess it would involve height, bone structure etc. I mean I found my ex to be very attractive 5"10 190lbs. range. I just like meat on the bones, and no not a perv, I was just saying , some people in my eyes look better when more plump. I mean some people may find very thin women attractive, but to me personally I think the model type (shape wise) are kinda ugly. I guess I am just an odd ball. Best example: I would prefer women who shopped for cloths at the Dress Barn. No one else feels this way? Oh well.

My husband does... but he's very happy that i'm losing weight, I'm not thin and tiny and will never be. He likes the meat too!

I totally agree, there are many on here that i liked better when they were heavier, i wont mention names cuz i know they are all proud to have lost the weight. I like a woman with curves, not a circle, but curves. Of course at 275 pounds beggers cant be choosers and i takes whats i can gets!


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hmm...i think big butts (on women) look good. probably a good thing since mine is huge. always has been, always will be. as far as men go, i'm not really into "bigger" guys. my husband is 6'5" and 200lbs. he's quite lean. though i don't think of him as skinny, i know some people do.