That comparison is just TOO funny! I think that descibes me and BF totally....except...he a lot taller than me so what does that make us? A capital "I" and a lower case "o"... Io ???

I am not heavier than mine although almost, there is only 3-5 kg weight difference between us, but scarily enough almost 20 cms!!!! We also look Io!!
But the worst things is, when we met I used to lie on him and he would be broader than me, all of me fitted into him nicely and I called him my "island". Well now when we do that first of all he gets out of breath pretty quickly with this huge me lying on tiny him and secondly I have grown so big that I fall of his chest on both sides... !!
I have told him when I am skinny we will have to marry because that will be the time he can carry me over the threshold but he looked at me and replied: I am gonna break my back!! (Oh cheers for the support buddy!!!)
He still thinks I am pretty, which is nice, but I know he somehow feels cheated because he started going out with me when I was at my minimal weight (just after quitting dance). But he seldomly complains!
xxMilaxx

Whenever I first met my husband I was a lot heavier than him but through a combination of him gaining a few lbs and me losing I am now about 25 lbs lighter than he is. Although he has just recently begun to lose a couple lbs and I think he is going to pass me up!

When i first met my husband 7 years ago he was 300 pounds and 5'10 and I was 5'7 and 200.. Now he is 222 after i nagged him about diabetes and I am 242 pounds and diabetic.. Fate is a cruel thing. I think i can pick him up now and throw him around.. He was a lovely 44 and now a 36 and i think i can fit his old pants.. He is so supportive in my quest to get him to lose another 40 pounds and my quest to lose 102 pounds..

Don't worry--you can do it, and diabetes is very managable! You can do it!!

I think I'm just about the same weight as my hubby now.. I still look bigger though but am shorter (Thank goodness!)... He's 6'1 and I'm 5'9..

DAMN..Pete just got back from tour and he has lost 5lbs. I need to fatten him back up...I'm catching up though....I have lost almost 20 lbs....26 more to go aqnd we'll be equals....

When I first met my husband I wasn't exactly petite but i wasn't as big as I am now. I was about 150 lbs but over the 8 years that we have been together and having our son I have managed to go from that to where I am now at 261. My hubby weighs about 210 but that is cause he has to maintain his weight cause the army is very strict about that kind of stuff. Other then when I first met my hubby I have always been heavier then he has and yes it does bother me sometimes that I am so much bigger then he is specially when it comes to the bedroom stuff.. sorry if too much info there.. My hubby always tells me he loves the way i look and stuff but i would much rather be able to love the way I look and also have him love the way i look so we are both happy about it you know? well i just realized what time it was so i had better get to cause my son will be up in about 6 hours. hope this helps if not sorry.. i know sometimes when you feel bad it helps to know that others have also gone through it too.

When I met my husband I was about 150 lbs and he was 160. I am 5'4" and he is 5'7". Fast forward to 2005 when my daughter was born, me: 205, hubby : 160. He has been 160 since he was 18 ( he is 38 now). It was so embarrassing for me when we had to go somewhere. My parents used to tell me jokingly :" are you feeding this man or you are keeping all the food to yourself?" it wasn't always funny.
Now at 167.5 I am getting closer and I know it is as important to him as it is to myself. Hopefully by the end of summer, he will be the "heavy one" in the family.

original post in feb`07
"i was 2 stone heavier.the worst thing is he is nearly a foot taller too and not that light himself (bmi approx 26). i am now possibly a lb or two lighter"


ha, just felt i had to update.... i am now over 3 stone lighter than my other half. his "choccy" belly is now much larger than mine. slim

Congrats on the weight loss so far and for being lighter then your hubby but what do you mean by 2 stone? I have never heard of that expression before sorry.

hi, i guess its a weight the brits use. one stone = 14 pounds and thanks. slim

My gf weighs between 140 and 150 standing at about 5'3". She has fairly muscular legs from being a dancer for about 18 years or so now. (drool... )

I am a full foot taller than her, and weigh 407 now. In the time we have been together I have weighed anywhere from 330 to 450. Thanks to my build, I dont think she will ever have to worry about weighing more than me. My Fat Free Mass is over 240 pounds right now... and my goal weight is about 275.

I thought it was interesting when someone said awhile back that they couldnt wait to weigh low enough that their boyfriend would be able to pick them up and toss them around easily. Personally, I always thought it was my responsibility to be strong enough no matter what my gf weighed (within reason of course, lol).

Ive noticed that my changes are catching her interest quite a bit, and sort of inspiring her, though she isnt making any changes yet. But i think that once i get back into my old working weights, and start to improve cardiovascularly, that as I start to leave her in the dust actively, she might start getting her butt moving to keep up. Weight has never mattered much to me, as long as she is able to be active and enjoy life physically. Might sound unbelievable, but even at 407 pounds I am able to get out and move around quite a bit. And when it gets to the point where she cant keep up with me, i think things will get very interesting for the both of us. :-D

Well I've always been heavier than my husband! when we met, I was at least 60lbs heavier than he now I am about 150lbs heavier than him! he still loves me the same, this is why I married him! We have been together since I was 18, I am now 25! He is so slim! LUCKY!!!!!! he can eat anything he wants and it has no effect on him, though it is catching up a tiny bit now that he's getting older! Hehehe.
It does bother me that I weigh more than him, it bothers me a lot! *Tears* I wish that he would be able to lift me up and spin me around or when we have sex all the diffrent positions I would be able to do, lol, sorry if that was to much info!! It's how I feel. I have very low self esteem now and have become someone who I seriously Hate! It affects my husband also, this makes me sad!
This past week has been much better for me, now that I have started exercising and eating right I feel better and boy does he notice!! =)

I am heavier than my boyfriend. He weights 160-180 somewhere in there, and well I weigh 209 now :] Use to be 228.. so thats a big difference.

The thing though is, he use to be overweight and so did his mom. So it made him more accepting of dating someone overweight, because he doesn't look at just that.