MidGaGuy's Diary

MidGaGuy · January 30th, 2008, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by bikinibound

I already posted my response in the other thread.

What is with all the violent women in your diary today??

As long as they don't wanna beat my ass (too hard), I'm ok with it. I think I wanna beat up Amy's ex, too. Too bad your ex-wife's remarried. We could fix her up with Amy's ex. Those two sound made for each other.

Women who want to punch = hawtness

As long as it's not me they wanna punch *LOL*

MidGaGuy · January 30th, 2008, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Curvie Girlie

I agree!

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Too bad that ex of yours hurt your feelings so bad--one big part of life is not letting things get to you for too long. I like that these ladies are defensive of Your Sweetness, but my personal philosophy is forgiveness--and I've had to forgive my BF a few times to truly understand what that entails! It ain't easy but the best things in life (like losing weight that you want to) aren't. I think a lot of people who have weight to lose start out with anger in their hearts at the ridicule they endured--then later, when they're slim and healthy and at peace, realize they now have to open up and forgive and move on. At least, that's my humble theory. It's of course different for everyone

But I wish you the best for losing the last 50 lbs! Can't wait!

I like that frame of mind, but in my situation, my ex burned all the forgiveness bridges very thoroughly. Not just with me but with everyone in my family and even her own. I don't know why really. It just happened. What I've done though is build a new bridge and gotten over it. It took a while though

As for how I'll feel when I get skinny, I dunno. It's hard to think that I would act any differently than I do right now being heavy. We shall see though!

bikinibound · January 30th, 2008, 02:25 PM

I agree with you regarding your ex. Unless she came to you and made a very sincere apology for all the shit she put you through, there is no reason to forgive. However, the trick is not to let it eat away you. My gran does that. She still brings up crap her dead sisters said and did to her 50yrs ago. I say, get over it...lol. The only person she's hurting by holding onto all that is herself. But, I think you've gotten past it with your ex. I don't think you dwell on it too much. At least I hope you don't.

MidGaGuy · January 31st, 2008, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by bikinibound

I agree with you regarding your ex. Unless she came to you and made a very sincere apology for all the shit she put you through, there is no reason to forgive. However, the trick is not to let it eat away you. My gran does that. She still brings up crap her dead sisters said and did to her 50yrs ago. I say, get over it...lol. The only person she's hurting by holding onto all that is herself. But, I think you've gotten past it with your ex. I don't think you dwell on it too much. At least I hope you don't.

Nah, I don't dwell on it anymore. I used to. For the longest time it bothered me alot. I don't know if I ever told the story of my divorce on here or not but it was very out of the blue and to this day I don't really know what went wrong. It made me question everything about myself. Made me wonder what was wrong with "me". I felt depressed and just generally shitty for years. It boils down to the simple fact that she cheated on me and married someone else. Period. It really wasn't my fault, it was her choices and she made them. But for a good while I felt like it was all my fault for some reason. Not anymore though!

MidGaGuy · February 1st, 2008, 09:20 AM

January 2 lbs per week challenge

Start Weight (Jan 1) = 257.4
4 January= 256.0 (-1.4 lbs)
11 January= 254.6 (-1.4 lbs) - 2.8 lbs total
18 January= 253.0 (-1.6 lbs) - 4.4 lbs total
25 January = 251.2 (-1.8 lbs) - 6.2 lbs total
Finish Weight January 31= 249.6 (-1.6 lbs) - 7.8 lbs total

Total Lost in January -7.8 lbs

MsGhettoBooty · February 1st, 2008, 09:33 AM

[QUOTE=MidGaGuy;390716] I don't know if I ever told the story of my divorce on here or not but it was very out of the blue and to this day I don't really know what went wrong. It made me question everything about myself. Made me wonder what was wrong with "me". I felt depressed and just generally shitty for years. It boils down to the simple fact that she cheated on me and married someone else. Period. It really wasn't my fault, it was her choices and she made them. But for a good while I felt like it was all my fault for some reason. Not anymore though!QUOTE]

Damn.. I'm disliking that ex more and more, honey. hahaa! Wow. You're like the male version of me when it comes to cheating fuckers. Same thing here, except we weren't married. He decided to move in with the girl (He was in Canada) behind my back. I finally found out after his younger brother informed me of his brother cheating on me. I went through depression, doubting myself, hating men/ loving women.. (HA!) etc. Oh well... we move on and get stronger, angel. In your case.. you get hotter with age. Good shit. It'll eventually bite her in the ass when she least expects it. It happens.

-S Dawg

bikinibound · February 1st, 2008, 10:38 PM

CONGRATS ON HITTING THE 240s!!!

MidGaGuy · February 6th, 2008, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by MsGhettoBooty

In your case.. you get hotter with age.

Ah if only this will become reality!

MidGaGuy · February 6th, 2008, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by bikinibound

CONGRATS ON HITTING THE 240s!!!

Thankees!

I wanna get in and out of them asap!

AmyRB · February 6th, 2008, 11:19 AM

Look at you! Already 248lbs! Regardless of what YOU may think, you are hawt at 248lbs. Something about you Georgia boys.

bikinibound · February 6th, 2008, 11:26 AM

Yup, I'll be shaking my pom poms atcha for hitting the 230s rather soon, imo. Damn, the pounds just drop right off you!

I agree with Amy--although I just like Southern men in general...lol. Actually, my H is Southern, too--he comes from the Southern part of Australia. haha

Keep on losin'!

MidGaGuy · February 7th, 2008, 07:40 AM

Looks like I might have a rough time this week. Looks like I'm sick. My son has had the flu and I might have caught it. Aching and sore throat with a worsening cough. I have 50 minutes worth of exercise still to do tonight for the challenge but I don't know if I'm going to feel up to it or not

I'm at work now but if I had my choice I'd be at home in the bed! If I don't get any worse than this I'll be ok but I am worried this won't be the case

MidGaGuy · February 7th, 2008, 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by AmyRB

Look at you! Already 248lbs! Regardless of what YOU may think, you are hawt at 248lbs. Something about you Georgia boys.

That just made me feel 10x better!

MidGaGuy · February 7th, 2008, 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by bikinibound

Yup, I'll be shaking my pom poms atcha for hitting the 230s rather soon, imo. Damn, the pounds just drop right off you!
I dunno, I've slowed to a crawl this week. This morning I was still 248 so who knows what the scale will say tomorrow

I agree with Amy--although I just like Southern men in general...lol. Actually, my H is Southern, too--he comes from the Southern part of Australia. haha

Keep on losin'!

So does he speak with a Southern Australian accent ?

bikinibound · February 7th, 2008, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by MidGaGuy

So does he speak with a Southern Australian accent ?

LOL! Actually, accents in Australia tend to be more class-related than geographic. There is a bit of a rural/urban mix to it as well. H sounds more English than Crocodile Hunterish.

I'm so sorry you're feeling under the weather. The flu is no fun. You should be in bed. Can you go home early today? I'm gonna don my naughty nurse uniform and come over.

Drink lots of water and take it as easy as possible. I'd give you a hug, but I don't wanna catch what you've got...

Look on the bright side--if you do start to

the number on the scale will go down.

Bad BB, bad, bad BB.