Thanks guys

Thanks Margaret. I know i actually fell back off the scales lol. The number i really want to see is 149. After that it can come off as slow as it likes.

You are so laid back. I am greedy for every pound. I think that I will be that way until I am something like nine and a half stone.

I think we all get a bit greedy, its like when will this be over already!

!52.6lbs today so 3lbs and ill breath a sigh of relief and may celebrate with a diet coke lol. So long drinking water i forget what anything with a bit of fizz is. I was out at a party last night drinking my water, i dont drink alcohol anyway so drink water now every weekend and not diet sodas. Well i was sickened. Guys before that wouldnt look twice at me were falling all over me. A few of my exs were there and it was good to see their jaws drop but they were as nice as they always were, never once mentioned my weight to me and always remained friends but hadnt seen me in about a month. Best part of all is the guy i am seeing started chasing me when i was heavy and he is gorgeous so i am glad i met him when i was heavy! |Got a bit stressed last night. I saw an ex yesterday that was with for many years and he was crying his eyes out to come back to him, hes been going on about this now with two months but he treated me horrible and in fairness yes he has turned his life around the last month but i dont want to go back because i got so hurt physically and emotionally that it just doesnt interest me and i dont feel like i did about him and the guy i am with now i really do adore and he is everything i ever wanted in a guy. So when the ex begged and cried i couldnt even get upset and he said i had changed, gotten hard. I told him i had no choice. He held onto my legs and pleaded for me not to leave. I stepped over him and said im sorry goodbye.
Thats all fine....but last night he sent me a text saying he was going to make the pain end. Well this is what he said "im going to make this feeling go away mysef pet, our spot at the river seems awful lonely without you, christ im crushed, i love you more than anything on this earth and i cant live with losing you. You were the best thing that ever happened me and im so sorry for how i treated you. Bye pet and this is my last text to anybody gbye pet"

Now when i got this i replied, COP ON! but it didnt deliver so the phone was off straight after the text. I worried all night. The text delivered this morning. I phoned him and ate his head off for doing that to me. That it was torture to do that to anybody and how dare he. He said i never said i was going to kill myself, you know i wouldnt do that, i was just out for a walk, im just hurt. I told him to do what he likes but i never want to hear from him again after this and hung up.

thing is i am mad with worry that i have pushed him over edge leaving and he would do something stupid. Before i would turn to food but i didnt even think of food after that. I turning point with my relationship with food also.

Sorry for ranting about nothing to do with weight loss but just to get it o9ut of my system makes me sigh with relief.

It is very much to do with weight loss and weight gain. You said it yourself! Faced with that kind of situation the old you would have turned to food big-time. The fact is that this time you didnt. You have moved on from that kind of reaction to stress. Congratulate yourself on a major weight loss achievement. These new habits will keep you slim - without them you would have been watching your weight go up.

By the way - it is great that you have someone special that loves you for who you are and not just what you look like. Looks do not always last forever - and it is much better if a relationship is based on something much more solid.

It is also good for your ego that you got plenty of general attention. Everyone likes to feel that they are appreciated.

Take care
Love
Margaret

Wednesday 12th March

Weight - 150.4lbs
Calves - (L) 39.5cms (R) 39cms
Thighs - (L) 55cms (R) 55cms
Hips - 95.5cms
Waist - 91.5cms
Chest - 87cms
Bust - 89cms
Upper Arms - (L) 31.5cms (R) 31.5cms

Weight Loss: -4.9lb
Inch Loss: 11.5cm = 4.5inches

Total Inch Loss since Mid January - 26.69 Inches

hey good job on the inch loss and weight loss! i see ou are now in the 140s adn at a weight you haven't been at since you were 9!!!!!! WTG!!!!

x

Thanks Angel

Wednesday 19th March

Weight - 147.1lbs
Calves - (L) 39cms (R) 39cms
Thighs - (L) 53cms (R) 53.5cms
Hips - 94cms
Waist - 90cms
Chest - 86cms
Bust - 86.5cms
Upper Arms - (L) 31cms (R) 31cms

Weight Loss: -3.3lb
Inch Loss: 11.5cm = 4.5inches

Total Inch Loss since Mid January - 31.19 Inches

Friday 28th March

Weight - 143.6lbs
Calves - (L) 38cms (R) 38cms
Thighs - (L) 52.5cms (R) 53.5cms
Hips - 92cms
Waist - 88cms
Chest - 84cms
Bust - 86cms
Upper Arms - (L) 31cms (R) 30.5cms

Weight Loss: -3.5lb
Inch Loss: 9.5cm = 3.7inches

Total Inch Loss since Mid January - 34.89 Inches


I am finished weight weight loss right now. I have to have a tummy tuck done and i need to save the thousands to have that done. My rips are sticking out so i think its the skin making me think im fat. my docto will not let me lose anymore.

SO i am going to try and maintain at 143lbs from here on out and tone up.

I just wanted to pop by to congratulate you on getting to the point of being told to stop losing weight.

It must feel wonderful.

I suspect that a number of us will be needing an appointment with the scalpel to sort out the loose skin. Have you looked into the likely cost yet? I am thinking that I should start earmarking some money for that too!

Take care
Love
Margaret

I hope that maintenance is going well for you.