This is/was a very sweeet thing to say

I miss ya, it woudl be nice to chat sometime ya havent been around lately>I hope all is well

Honey! I'm so sorry that happend to you. <3 People can be sooo cruel. In middle school this one boy would call me Miss Piggy for no other reason than to hurt me. I know what you are saying about some people just being cruel and others just not thinking about what they are saying. Family is the worst for just NOT thinking! I've had so many comments from family, while well intentioned, they end up being just plain hurtful. Last summer (right before I joined this site and started trying to lose weight) my sister-in-law asked me if I had trouble getting on the floor to play with my son. The same week my family had gotten together for a pool party at my dad's and my Grandmother asked me if I felt left out since all of my sisters look so good in bathing suits. I started to cry when she said that and then she asked me if I wanted to live to see my grandchildren one day. It was just a few days after that I joined this site and used all of that as a motivator to get myself into gear.

Well, I'm so sorry that happend to you. Try not to let that guy the best of you. That's what he wanted! BIG HUGS!!!

Girl where in the world are you??

I came in here to ask the same thing

I miss you you, you havent been around in internet world in general that I know of...

I think you should have yelled back at him:

He'll never have anyone in his life who truly loves and respects him as long as he acts like a fucking ass hole. Laugh at the fact that no one will ever love him completely, that no one will ever be able to respect him because of his arrogance and ignorance.
You will always have people who love and respect you for who you are. You have your wonderful husband, you have your friends... you have us too. He will never be able to comprehend the kind of love you receive on a daily basis. He is an ass hole. You are an amazing, generous, loving, caring, generally all-around fabulous person. Don't let ignorant shitheads get under your skin. You have all you need, all the love, respect, and admiration, right there in your little world.

I think, while it would be good motivation to get fit enough to beat the living shit out of people like him, you still need to do this on your terms. Don't let this throw you off track, but don't make your routine super-strict to try to lose faster. That will just make it harder when you slip up. Don't be hard on yourself, either. Just think about yourself, and let fuckers like him live their own shallow lives.

I agree with txsqlchick. If someone's there today to make you feel like shit for being overweight, once you hit your goal weight and feel great in your skin, there will be another person there tomorrow to try to make you feel like shit for something else. Don't let it bother you, don't let it get you down. Ass holes like that will always be there. Some will think they're smarter, some will think they're prettier, and some will think they're more important. But keep in mind that there never has been, and never will be, anyone more special than you. You are better than all of them for one reason: You don't think you're better than anyone.


Cheer up dear!
Come back soon, I hope you haven't thrown in the towel... you are such a nice person, and you deserve to reach your goals.

<3Annie

I LOVE YOU!

I LOVE YOU!

You are a beautiful person from out encounters on here. I haven't met you, but I'm sure your inner beauty radiates out. Don't let anyone demean your true worth. Obviously that person is going to try and seek something that makes them happy, but they don't know how to be happy themselves. You are working your ass off (AND IT SHOWS!) to make your inner beauty shown to people who don't know you, but let me tell you something, the people who DO KNOW YOU know that you are worth a billion of that guy. He isn't even worth your tears. I just want you to know that you are beautiful and loved.

Off soap box....

Leeeeeeeesiiiieeeee, where are you??? I haven't been around much myself, so do you go on facebook? Maybe we can keep in touch there if you're not into WLF. Dont wanna lose touch!

Hey Lisa how are you doing?? I have been missing in action for a minute but I wanted to stop by and say HI!!! Hope all is well... Don't worry about stupid people and there comments. Negativity is hard to endure but it should make you stronger.. Your on your way to your goal and you will make it.. I have noticed that people who talk shit are so angry with there own lives they have nothing better to do.. Anger comes from within and your much better than that.. Take care girly.. stay on track.. you are doing this and you will do this....

hey sweetie!
wow what a rough day =T
just thought i would tell you im back! ^^
hopefully you will be around soon too =P
<3

Sorry guys I know I've been MIA but wasn't because of that. It's been super busy and also I didn't have my computer for a bit...it was in the shop. I also have some extra responsibilities on my plate now though so I don't think I'll be able to get on here every day anymore and that's going to make it really hard to get by everyone's journals. I might end up doing what some have and just shut my journal down and join a challenge. Just don't want anyone upset with me but what little time I do have now needs to be spent moving my butt, not sitting on it at the computer. I haven't been eating super unhealthy but I know I've been over eating alot and not focusing on my weight loss. No excuses....just had other things that took over my focus. Weather is getting very nice so I'm going to up my exercise here soon and start watching calories again. Anyway just wanted to check in and let everyone know I'm ok.

Do what is best for you, I do hope though that maybe we can hook up sometimes on messenger...

Do you have any time for facebook? A few of us keep in touch on there. Would love to stay in touch Leesie .

Lisa, love and hugs to you! Sorry about what happened. There are cruel, sick and twisted people out there who only want to cause others pain to hide their own pain inside--sick but true. Stay beautiful!

LISA I LOVE YOU COME BACK!!!!!!! NOW MISSY!!!! !!!!

Hiya Lisa,

Been MIA for a month now, just got back. I'm sorry to hear what happened to you- there are people out there that... Just has a sad life, that they must waste time thinking and uttering harsh opinions. That guy was an asshole.

Personally, when someone says something negative to me, I tend to wisecrack right back. I've have told that asswipe "Yeah, wanna a ride on my blowhole?" Or, "Well, am I a whale or a bitch? Choose one." That would have shut him up right there and make him look foolish in front of his friends.

Anyhow, it's OK to fall off the bicycle, just as long as you get right back on. Don't let that asshole win. You've got much more going for ya, hang in there!!

George