Hm ... I'm not sure why your post got overlooked. One thing about this forum is that the "unread posts" tends to reset when you hit refresh ... so sometimes new posts get lost. Also the volume on the board is pretty high, so sometimes things get missed. I know I check the board here 5 or 6 times a day and even so, I never saw this post originally.
Don't go away or be angry .. just bump the thread if you don't get a response.
First of all, I'd say at your current weight, you could probably lose safely and healthily at around 2500
calories. That would be my suggestion for a starting point and then you can tweak from there. Make sure that your
diet is balanced between complex carbs, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Most people use a 40/30/30 split or something in that range - meaning that 40% of their
calories come from carbs (grains, veggies, fruits), 30% of their
calories come from lean proteins, and 30% of their
calories come from healthy fats (olive oil, nuts and seeds, avocado, etc.).
An easy way to track your
diet is to sign up with one of the free sites like thedailyplate.com or fitday.com. You can enter what you eat and it'll help you track
calories and percentages.
As for exercise, I'm not an expert in that field - there are people here far more knowledgeable than I, but I'd say that you should probably work on doing some kind of weight lifting or
body resistance training 2x to 3x a week and some form of
cardio 2x or 3x a week. When you lift
weights or do
body weight training you want to give your
body at least 24 hours of recovery time between workouts - better even 48 hours. What I do is alternate days ... a weight program on Monday and Thursday, and running or
HIIT cardio on the off days.
Right now I'm using this program:
StrongLifts 5×5 Beginner Strength Training Program | StrongLifts.com
And I'm also training to run a 5k using the Couch to 5K program:
Cool Running :: The Couch-to-5K Running Plan
If you follow the link to my journal in my signature, you'll see that I've just started posting my meals,
calories, and workouts on a regular basis. Starting a journal here, if you're so inclined can keep you accountable and give people a place to follow along with you and offer suggestions and advice.
Good luck.