let's look at what you posted:
"breakfast --i usually skip it, but if I do have breakfast, I will have a bowl of cereal (cocoa puffs, marshmallow alphabets) with regular milk, and a medium coffee with 2 sugars and half & half. (on the weekends I usually have a bagel for breakfast w/cream cheese)"
ALWAYS have breakfast, but not what you've posted here. sugary cereal, cream cheese, regular sugar....cut it all out. try this: english muffin with low sugar jam and a banana. or some low
fat cheese or chicken bacon on the muffin. have your coffee but use 1 sugar twin instead of 2 sugars.
"Lunch --this varies, I almost always have fast food though! But not a whole lot..i'll run to BK and get a whopper jr (NOT the meal) or to mcdonalds for a cheeseburger., or tbell for a bean burrito with extra cheese. When i'm not having fast food, I typically have a sandwich like boars head turkey w/ranch dressing on wheat toast, and a bag of chips"
bag of chips, fast food....not good. pack a sandwich and a piece of fruit or even a light microwavable lunch.
"dinner --Meatloaf and noodles, chicken with potatoes and veggies, the typical all american meals. And at least 3 times a week I have pasta w/sauce and load it with Romano cheese (italian here!)"
lots of cheese, starches, etc. you're loading up
calories from lunch and supper. try a small portion of pasta and have a salad to go with it....grill the chicken, small potato and small portion of veggies.
"snacking---that's a downfall for me. My snacks consist of coffee throughout the day, starbucks or dunkin donuts run about 2-3 times a week for lattes and a donut, chocolate, ice cream, potato chips...the bulk of my snacking is done late night, 9pm and after. I will sometimes even cook a second dinner at 10pm, like a ramen noodles meal."
it's easy to see here where all the excess
calories are coming from. have a piece of fruit, granola bar, some popcorn as a snack. cut out the lattes or limit them (make them low or non
fat).
are you a starving artist or just spending a lot of money on take out?
there's a lot of room in what you've posted in terms of healthier eating....hope I gave you some ideas....good luck!