Well I cannot relate but my wife was certainly feeling the same way until she found Herbalife! We are a proud Herbalife couple distributor helping others achieve their goals. Either be loosing weight, gaining or just simply feeling better. She started Herbalife on baby #2 and was breastfeeding for about a year and a half while she was enjoying her Herbalife shakes. Let me know if you would be interested to know more. My wife would be pleased to discuss on how she was able to accomplish her baby fat to go away!